Here we are, after midnight on the 7th of February 2013 and this is now my last full day as an American in America. I will be traveling to England on Friday at 9:10 pm and will then be with my husband, starting our new life together.
That’s a very powerful sentence right there. Perhaps one of the most powerful things I have thought aloud or written down to myself. I’m declaring that in less than 48 hours my status will have changed in a very physical way and all that represents my Life in the United States will be no more, at least not as it was, and will I will now be officially not only a Wife but legally living abroad. I would have never guessed any of this would happen two years ago.
What’s happening in my head right now?
At this moment in my life, as I have a lot of spare time lying on my parents spare bed, I spend a fair amount of time with earbuds inserted and eyes firmly planted on on the ceiling late at night. My good friends George Michael and Cathy Dennis tonight whisper in my ears their familiar exclaimations of Love and Longing. I feel about 8 years old again (about as old as I was when these people were international pop stars of renoun) and it’s a feeling not of warm fuzzy pre-adolescent thoughts but of anxiety.
You see, I don’t have a lot of happy memories that I can recall at about the ages of 6 to 8, mostly when I think of these times, I feel a great deal of anxiety. In the stillness of the night, I can almost hear my parents arguing in the living room or expect the door to open, shattering any sense of privacy or security. These “trips down memory lane” fill me with anxiousness and a longing for stability. I think these ages stick out in my mind as the most anxious is because perhaps as I got a little older, I… Continue reading
On May 24th, 2011, I posted a letter I had written to my then “boyfriend” or whatever you want to call “r”. Whilst glancing over the posts and categories on my blog here, I came across that post and letter. Here are my reflections now over a year later, in January of 2013.
When I look at the time stamp of that post, I realize that even though I didn’t know it then, I was already in love with (my now husband) Ken. I had “met” him on Twitter in 2009 through Christine Fischer and sent him the occasional message but really didn’t get to “know” him until around his birthday in May of 2011. I recall wanting to call him for his birthday and being so hurt when he told me not to because I thought he didn’t “like” me. It’s silly now but I’m glad he let me call him and that some deeper intelligence told me it was finally time to cut ties with “r”.
Here I am now, it’s January of 2013 and I’ve been married to Ken since November 3rd, 2012. I had no idea consciously that I would be here today, married… Continue reading
Last you heard via our website (and the last we heard) was that the UK Border Agency had received and opened my Visa application. Since I’ve gotten lazy about trying to explain to people just what is going on with the #UKBA here is the actual email.
From: UK Border Agency
Date: Tue, 27 Nov 2012 16:06:58
To: <<a href=”mailto:K.THOMAS.CISR@GMAIL.COM”>K.THOMAS.CISR@GMAIL.COM</a>>
Subject: Unclassified: UK Visa application received
The package containing your UK visa application has been opened and your supporting documents organized in preparation for consideration by an Entry Clearance Officer.
Please note UKBA customer service standards for all applications are: to complete 90% of visa applications (except settlement categories) in not more than three weeks, 98%in six weeks and 100% in 12 weeks.
To view the current processing times for visa applications submitted to the British Consulate General in New York, please click the following link:
<a href=”http://ukinusa.fco.gov.uk/en/about-us/other-locations/ny/news/ukba-news/” target=”_blank”>http://ukinusa.fco.gov.uk/en/about-us/other-locations/ny/news/ukba-news/</a>
You will receive further e-mails advising you of –
1. When your application reaches the next stage of the process; review by an Entry Clearance Officer, and
2. The outcome of your application.… Continue reading
Obviously, I’ve been dilligent about updating my blog since I got engaged, can you tell?
If you haven’t been reading thegiant.plus.thekimby.com then you probably have not kept up on the events of the last year. The quick and dirty version is that I met Kenneth online via mutual friends. We “dated” via DMs on twitter.com which moved on to telephone calls and then emails and web chats. After several months of this, things moved quickly and we started talking about getting married. Before we knew it, Kenneth was planning to come to AZ to see me which was almost a year ago!
Kenneth and I were engaged on November 23rd, 2011 at the Clarendon Hotel in Phoenix. The next day we spent with my family having Thanksgiving dinner.
It seemed like time would never go fast enough and we would never get married. I visited Kenneth in England in February of this year and he came back in June. Since then our steady diet of telephone calls and web chats has continued and assisted our relationship in blossoming.
Finally! The day came on November 3rd, 2012 (my Maternal Grandmother’s birthday incidently). We were married… Continue reading